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Attendance questions

What events are you attending?

July 11: rehearsal dinner (for ceremony entourage and out-of-town guests)

July 12: ceremony

July 12: cocktail hour and reception

Regrets: celebration is a mindset and will be done in spirit

If you are attending...

Dinner entrée

Dessert pie flavor

Food sensitives or allergens

Dance floor song or dance style requests

Contribute to the experience (optional section)

We are considering adding at least one more activity to the itinerary. Depending on interest, we might add one of the following social experiences.

Which, if any, would you be interested in attending and paying for during the week?

[Movie] Watch "Superman" the morning after the wedding (opening weekend!) at the Metreon (between the hotel and church)

[Basketball] Watch a “California Classic” basketball game in a box suite at the Chase Center (earlier in the week)

[Cultural and historical education] SoMa Pilipinas neighborhood walking tour (with stops to sit)

After feeling the high highs of this relationship, we want to champion this kind of feeling for everyone, romantic or not. So, tell us a time when you felt loved. We think just recalling that memory and sharing it is enough to tip the world's energy towards more care and sends us warm fuzzies in the process. (Don't worry: your story will remain confidential).

So, tell us your story about feeling loved.

We joke that "proper movies" feature a love story. This could be about family, friendship, romantic partners, or care for animals and the earth. But a truly proper movie, must have at least some expression of that.

What's your favorite depiction of love in a movie? Bonus if there's a musical element in it.

But wait, what else should I know?

As we continue to plan, we will make updates to this site and then message when those updates are ready.

For example, we have the beginnings of our wedding registry. But, we'll be adding to the registry on a weekly basis, so check back often.

Registry

Rolling updates

As of end of February, we will be offering a small shuttle service (potentially Waymos or small vans) from the hotel to the rehearsal dinner.
As of early March, the color theme we've settled on is a soft, sky blue.
In April, there are musical additions to the itinerary. Prior to the ceremony, a contemporary violinist will set the mood for those who appreciate modern day music set to instrumentals. After the ceremony, the mood will transition with more hype with Rondalla players and folk dancers. We hope you stay for 30 minutes or so after and join in.

For anything else, feel free to email us here. Or, just text or reach out the way you normally do. <3